Hey hey hey!  Happy Labor day!!!  Ok, I know I’m late AGAIN with this weeks post but the first step is admitting that you have a problem 🙂 Ok, step one complete. HAHAHHAAHAH!

Last week I asked I “When in a relationship do you talk about previous boyfriends/girlfriends?”  My friend Guillermo made a great point in his comment. If you’re on a first date and dude or chic starts talking about the ex, run, run, run as fast as you can. It’s clear they are not over their ex lover. After dating for some time, as you get further into your relationship it might help you understand where the other person is coming from if you know where they have been. Things they like, things they don’t like, turn ons, and turn offs.  This information is all very helpful when creating a life with someone. Use your own discretion.

Ok, next line of business…I’m single again! Yes, I realize this is probably the shortest relationship in history if you don’t count Brittney and her drive by wedding in Vegas.  I officially had a boyfriend for 30 days.  When I talked about how amazing and hot my boyfriend was I left out one tiny detail; he lives in NYC and I’m in LA!!!!!  Maybe we both bit off more then we could handle.  After all, having a relationship is hard enough without having thousands of miles in between.  We both decided that we live too far away from each other to grow as a unit. We are friends and he still continues to be a big part of my life.

Kind of ironic though, I finally figure out how to change my Facebook status from “single” to “in a relationship” and my 30-day courtship ends. LOL!  Which brings me back to my post from August 11, 2011.  Now having had a life changing Facebook status experience (insert sarcasm here) I would like to add that in the future I do not think I will be putting anything in the status box.  Here’s the thing, yes, everything is fine and dandy when you are “in a relationship” but what happens when you break up???  Now, I have to admit my break up was not a painful long drawn out thing.  With that being said what if I was devastated and I now have to change my facebook status?  The dumper is like “Yay!, I’m single again and the dumpee is like kill me, I’m single again and now the whole the world knows.”

In the beginning you are celebrating “Yay! I’m in a relationship!!” When it’s over you have to deal with pity comments from all your Facebook friends and your “I don’t know you friend but somehow we are FB friends and I feel the need to comment and give you support” ummmm…. What??  “I’m sorry who are you again?”  LOL!!  My good friend Kevin/blog editor (did you think I did this all on my own? Told you I wasn’t a writer 🙂 )said putting “In a relationship, or married as your FB status is like getting someone’s name tattooed on you.  It’s the kiss of death.”  LOL!  What do you think?

Well that about does it for me today.  I hope you all have a safe holiday weekend.  See  you next week.  XOXO 🙂